“You keep forgiving someone until you unlove them” …by romanian author Adrian Dumitru
It’s difficult … to forgive.
Much …. too difficult.
I … personally … try it.
But … the truth is that i simple can’t do it.
I analyse myself a lot.
I analyse … and define all the micro details of my life.
Unfortunately …. I can’t redefine myself.
I just can’t practice the forgiveness.
I mean … that type of forgiveness … in its absolute form.
But … to be honest with you … with all those people really important for myself … I’ve understood that the only trick i could do to stop that inner useless battle from inside of me is to … unlove them.
And … it really works.
No more frustrations.
No … more anger.
No … more fears of seeing again the same ugly episodes … repeated to myself … on and on and on.
So … i just force myself to …. unlove them.
Then … disconnection appears.
All becomes calm again.
Yes … i feel … that calmness which i really needed.
Maybe is a stupid trick.
But … i just can’t forgive.
It’s much, much easier for me to … unlove.
And … all finishes … nicely.
You might say …. I am an idiot.
Yes … i am …
But … i simple try to survive … into an unfair world …
Nothing more ….
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